EPISODE · Jun 1, 2026 · 57 MIN
"The Questions We Avoid (But Kids Still Ask)”
from Coffee and Conversations for MEN · host Jay and Brian
Podcast Show Notes☕️ Coffee and Conversations for MEN🎙 Episode #22 Title: The Questions We Avoid (But Kids Still Ask)”🎯 Theme: Finding the words to hard kid questions Episode Summary:What happens when kids ask the questions we’re not ready for?In this episode of Coffee and Conversations for Men, Jay and Brian dive into the real, raw, and often uncomfortable questions kids and teens are asking today and why so many men struggle to answer them.From “Where do babies come from?” to “Am I good enough?”,these aren’t just innocent curiosities, they’re deeper questions about safety, identity, trust, and emotional connection.And the truth? Most men were never taught how to respond.So instead of dodging, deflecting, or shutting things down with “because I said so,” this conversation opens the door to something different: honesty,vulnerability, and learning how to sit in the discomfort.0:48 Overview2:21 ☕ What’s in Your Cup?Jay’s Cup: Smart Ass Coffee: Kicking Horse https://kickinghorsecoffee.ca/collections/coffee/products/smart-ass-coffeeBrian’s Cup: The Farmer: Cape Coral Farmer Joe’s Café Java Dorohttps://javadoro.com/collections/house-blendsIn This Episode, these are the questions Jay and Brian tackle:4:21 “Where do babies come from?” “How did I get in your belly?” 7:43 “Why did you cry / why do people cry?”11:41 “What happens when you die?”15:51 “Why do grown-ups lie sometimes?”19:46 “Why is there homeless people.”20:01 “Why do you always say, “because I said so.”?27:18 “Why do guys bully other guys?”29:20 “What if I’m not good enough?”31:21 “Is Masturbation normal?” and “What is porn?”36:18 “Why don’t people talk about mental health more?”42:00 Why do you always say, “I’m fine, or I’m good?44:10 “Can I tell you something without you getting mad?” 44:50 “What if I’m gay / bi / confused—can I tell you?”48:09 ““What do you say when you hear a homophobic comment?”50:53 “Do you ever feel like you’re failing?” Key Takeaways:-Kids don’t need perfect answers, they need safe ones -Avoiding hard conversations teaches silence, not strength -Vulnerability is a skill most men were never taught, but can learn -The way we answer today shapes how our kids ask tomorrow -Sometimes the best response is simply: “I don’t know, but I’m here with you.” Quote from This Episode:“Kids aren’t just asking for answers… they’re asking if you’re safe.” 👥 Join the ConversationDM us or email to share your thoughts, your story, or topics you'd likeus to discuss on future episodes.Jay and BrianConnect with Us:Instagram: @coffeeandconversations4menYouTube: @CoffeeandConversationsforMENEmail: [email protected]: Coffee and Conversations for MEN
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Podcast Show Notes☕️ Coffee and Conversations for MEN🎙 Episode #22 Title: The Questions We Avoid (But Kids Still Ask)”🎯 Theme: Finding the words to hard kid questions Episode Summary:What happens when kids ask the questions we’re not ready for?In this episode of Coffee and Conversations for Men, Jay and Brian dive into the real, raw, and often uncomfortable questions kids and teens are asking today and why so many men struggle to answer them.From “Where do babies come from?” to “Am I good enough?”,these aren’t just innocent curiosities, they’re deeper questions about safety, identity, trust, and emotional connection.And the truth? Most men were never taught how to respond.So instead of dodging, deflecting, or shutting things down with “because I said so,” this conversation opens the door to something different: honesty,vulnerability, and learning how to sit in the discomfort.0:48 Overview2:21 ☕ What’s in Your Cup?Jay’s Cup: Smart Ass Coffee: Kicking Horse https://kickinghorsecoffee.ca/collections/coffee/products/smart-ass-coffeeBrian’s Cup: The Farmer: Cape Coral Farmer Joe’s Café Java Dorohttps://javadoro.com/collections/house-blendsIn This Episode, these are the questions Jay and Brian tackle:4:21 “Where do babies come from?” “How did I get in your belly?” 7:43 “Why did you cry / why do people cry?”11:41 “What happens when you die?”15:51 “Why do grown-ups lie sometimes?”19:46 “Why is there homeless people.”20:01 “Why do you always say, “because I said so.”?27:18 “Why do guys bully other guys?”29:20 “What if I’m not good enough?”31:21 “Is Masturbation normal?” and “What is porn?”36:18 “Why don’t people talk about mental health more?”42:00 Why do you always say, “I’m fine, or I’m good?44:10 “Can I tell you something without you getting mad?” 44:50 “What if I’m gay / bi / confused—can I tell you?”48:09 ““What do you say when you hear a homophobic comment?”50:53 “Do you ever feel like you’re failing?” Key Takeaways:-Kids don’t need perfect answers, they need safe ones -Avoiding hard conversations teaches silence, not strength -Vulnerability is a skill most men were never taught, but can learn -The way we answer today shapes how our kids ask tomorrow -Sometimes the best response is simply: “I don’t know, but I’m here with you.” Quote from This Episode:“Kids aren’t just asking for answers… they’re asking if you’re safe.” 👥 Join the ConversationDM us or email to share your thoughts, your story, or topics you'd likeus to discuss on future episodes.Jay and BrianConnect with Us:Instagram: @coffeeandconversations4menYouTube: @CoffeeandConversationsforMENEmail: [email protected]: Coffee and Conversations for MEN
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