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EPISODE · Jun 23, 2026 · 29 MIN

The Quiet Damage of Pride in Relationships, Parenting, and Communication

from The Mental Health Janitors · host Aaron Quinonez and Jessica Burgans

Send us Fan MailWhy is it so hard to admit we're wrong? 💭In this episode of Mental Health Janitors, Sgt Q and Doc Jess unpack a viral Reddit story that sparks a much bigger conversation about pride, accountability, parenting, and emotional growth.What happens when we're confronted with undeniable proof that we made a mistake? Why do so many people become defensive instead of taking ownership? And what lessons do our children learn when they never see us apologize?From family dynamics and relationship conflict to trauma responses and emotional intelligence, this episode explores the hidden cost of letting pride take the driver's seat.If you've ever struggled to say "I was wrong," found yourself explaining instead of apologizing, or wondered why accountability feels so uncomfortable, this conversation is for you.🎧 Tune in to learn how genuine apologies build trust, why ownership matters more than excuses, and how small moments of accountability can transform relationships.Episode Highlights:00:00 Welcome to Mental Health Janitors03:12 The Reddit Story That Started the Conversation08:45 Why Pride Makes Accountability So Difficult13:20 Should Parents Apologize to Their Kids?18:34 Explanations vs Excuses24:10 Trauma Responses and Emotional Reactions29:47 The Power of a Simple Apology35:18 How Accountability Strengthens Relationships40:05 Taking Ownership and Moving ForwardJoin the ConversationBe part of a growing community having real conversations about mental health, relationships, emotional intelligence, trauma, and personal responsibility.🔗 Join our community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1988960518109166/Listen on:🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0nPegvqPi1AO47Xbx3EvNz?si=d2cdfa086c32460c🎧 Website: https://thementalhealthjanitors.com/🎧 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/the-mental-health-janitors/Connect with Aaron “Sgt Q” Quinonez:Website: https://sgtq.net/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SgtQ13LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/keynotespeakerbusinessscalingcoachbetabloxjudgerealitystarpodcaster/Support the show

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Send us Fan Mail Why is it so hard to admit we're wrong? 💭 In this episode of Mental Health Janitors, Sgt Q and Doc Jess unpack a viral Reddit story that sparks a much bigger conversation about pride, accountability, parenting, and emotional growth. What happens when we're confronted with undeniable proof that we made a mistake? Why do so many people become defensive instead of taking ownership? And what lessons do our children learn when they never see us apologize? From family dynamics and ...

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