The Real Cost of Success With Carol Enneking, Author of The Rebalancing Act

Send us Fan MailThere's a version of success that looks great on paper. The promotion. The bigger title. The reputation for being the one who gets it done. But somewhere quietly underneath, the body starts sending different signals: blood pressure, sleep loss, distance from the people you love, and sometimes something far more serious. In this episode, host Sayan sits with Carol Enneking, former corporate VP, advisor, and author of The Rebalancing Act, to talk about what happens when ambition forgets the brake pedal. They unpack why high achievers often arrive at the finish line completely depleted, what women in particular carry under the surface, and a simple three-step framework, think, give up, let go, that helps you build a version of success that doesn't quietly cost you everything. About the Guest: Carol Enneking is a speaker, advisor, and author of The Rebalancing Act: Wisdom from Working Women for Success that Matters, with a foreword by Sally Helgesen. After three decades across corporate leadership, entrepreneurship, and global consulting on six continents, she now helps senior and aspiring leaders rebalance ambition, boundaries, and impact. Her Oxford Talk on rebalancing has been viewed over a million times. She is based in Houston, Texas. Key Takeaways: The body keeps the receipt. High achievers often only catch their burnout when something serious shows up, breast cancer, blood pressure, sleep collapse. The signals were quieter for years, just not loud enough to override the dopamine. A strength overused becomes a weakness. The same drive that builds your career can spill into every part of life and erode your discernment about what actually deserves your energy. Just because you can does not mean you should. Especially for women carrying invisible obligations, learning to say no in alignment with your values is what protects long-term sustainability. Three practical steps: Think (get clear on values, goals, and the legacy you want), Give up (release low-value activity that doesn't serve you), Let go (release control over how the things you keep get done). Success has a cost. The question isn't whether to be ambitious, it's whether the cost you're paying is in alignment with the life you actually want. Connect With the Guest: Website: https://carolenneking.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/caroltenneking/ Free resource: Legacy Blueprint Workbook (available via her website) Book: The Rebalancing Act: Wisdom from Working Women for Success that Matters (Amazon and major retailers) Episode Chapters: [00:00] Cold Open — The Quiet Cost of Looking Successful [03:30] When the Body Speaks: Carol's Wake-Up Call [06:30] The Most Accomplished Are Often the Most Depleted [09:30] A Strength Overused Becomes a Weakness [12:00] The Brake Pedal Lets You Drive Faster [14:30] Hyper-Focus, Pressure, and the Slow Slide Into Burnout [17:30] Three Steps That Change Everything: Think, Give Up, Let Go [22:30] Letting Go of Control and Inviting Others In [25:30] Defining Success on Your Own Terms Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? 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