The Real Reason Marriages Break Down | with Gervase Kolmos

In this powerful episode of the Successful in Love podcast, inner transformation coach Gervase shares her deeply personal story — from corporate burnout and motherhood challenges to finding her purpose as a coach.We explore what happens when a woman outgrows the life she built, the tension between ambition and marriage, and how to navigate relationships when you’re evolving faster than your partner.💡 Topics covered:– Why motherhood can trigger identity loss– How to deal with relationship imbalance– The power of the nervous system in love & leadership– Creating emotional safety in modern partnerships– Female ambition, fear, and patriarchal narrativesAbout the guest:Gervase Kolmos, Inner Transformation Coach and phoenix-in-evolution. I help women learn to trust themselves and be guided by their own inner authority to live with pleasure, authenticity and embodied wisdom.Some facts about Gervase:- 11+ years coaching women to align with their soul center- Trained in coaching, focalizing (somatic modality) and hypnotherapy - Mom of three, happily imperfect wife and entrepreneurGervase's social links:Website - https://www.gervasekolmos.comInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/gervasekolmosPodcast - https://www.gervasekolmos.com/the-modern-phoenixTimecodes:0:00 - Introduction1:02 - How did Gervase become a coach?5:12 - How COVID changed her business10:00 - «The social nervous system» in relationships14:15 - How to be aligned with your partner25:45 - How insecurity ruins your relationship31:55 - Miscommunication as the reason to break up38:03 - You don't need to provide for your family with just money🎯 Watch this free video to learn more: https://www.successfullyinlove.com/💬 Apply for a strategy call with Katarina: https://calendly.com/katarinapolonskaAbout the Host Katarina Polonska is a Strategic Relationship Advisor and a Gender Dynamic Social Scientist from the University of Oxford. She has 15 years of experience studying love, gender, and relationships.Follow Katarina on Instagram: @katarinapolonskaConnect with Katarina on LinkedInWant deeper support? Apply for a free Consultation Call with Katarina today: Click here to book your callEnjoyed this deep dive into love and leadership? Please take a moment to subscribe, leave a 5-star rating, and download a few more episodes.As a gift of gratitude, I will send you my program, the Over-Givers Reset if you leave a 5-star review and share what you love about the show. 🎁 To claim your gift, submit your review screenshot to this email: [email protected] episode is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not therapy, counseling, mental health treatment, or a substitute for working with a licensed healthcare or mental health professional. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, abuse, trauma  symptoms, or thoughts of self-harm, please contact a licensed professional or emergency resource in your area. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.