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EPISODE · May 5, 2026 · 15 MIN

The Real Reason Your Daughter Isn't Getting Recruited

from Raising Elite Competitors · host Coach Bre

If your daughter wants to play at the next level, this is the video she needs to see. 🎯 Grab the tools she needs → trainhergame.com/momMost athletes spend years training their bodies for college scouts. But the coaches doing the recruiting are quietly screening for something else entirely.After 14 years as a head volleyball coach, I watched talented athletes get removed from recruiting lists - not because of skill gaps, but because of what happened between the plays.👋🏼 I'm Coach Bre, a mental performance coach for girl athletes, Co-Founder of The Elite Competitor, and a head volleyball coach and 4-time state champion.In this episode, I'm breaking down 5 things college coaches look for beyond talent:✅ How she responds after mistakes (and what coaches are really watching)✅ What her body language says when things aren't going her way✅ How she treats her teammates under pressure✅ How she interacts with her parents and coaches at events✅ Whether she performs when the moment gets big - or plays it safeEvery single one of these is trainable. I'm also breaking down the Snapback Routine - the simple reset system athletes use to bounce back faster than their sport requires.If she has the talent, let's make sure the rest of her game matches it.⏱️ Key Moments:00:00 Introduction00:32 Why Mental Skills Matter in Recruiting02:12 #1: Response to Adversity03:15 The Snapback Routine04:35 Free Training Callout05:19 #2: Body Language06:40 #3: How You Treat Teammates08:28 #4: How You Treat Your Parents09:43 #5: Performing Under Pressure12:29 Recap & Final ThoughtsDrop a comment below and let me know which of the 5 hits home👇📩 Want to connect? Email us at [email protected]📌 Resources & Tools🙌 What's Your Competitor Style Quiz (to send your athlete!): https://www.videoask.com/fnbmhduxy💜 Conversation Guide w/ Scripts to Bring Up Mental Training: https://s3.amazonaws.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/file-uploads/sites/144031/downloads/66e16c-6886-4a62-b8db-c43a1ae18fbd_The_Elite_Mental_Game_Conversation_Starter.pdf%20🎯 FREE Training for Sports Moms: https://trainhergame.com/mom📺 YouTube Playlist for Athletes: https://www.youtube.com/@AthleteMentalEdge🎓 The Elite Mental Game (our self-paced mental training program): https://elitecompetitor.com/emg🔔Subscribe for more mental training tips for girl athletes ⬇️  Raising Elite Competitors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RaisingEliteCompetitors    P.S. A few stats worth knowing:  ⚡️ Mental skills are among the top factors coaches cite in recruiting decisions, alongside physical skills and coachability. (Journal of Sport and Exercise Psychology)⚡️ 85% of college coaches say they would not recruit an athlete who displayed poor body language or sportsmanship, regardless of talent level. (NFHS)⚡️ Athletes who use mental skills training show a 43% improvement in competitive performance consistency under pressure. (Association for Applied Sport Psychology)The Raising Elite Competitors YouTube channel is hosted by The Elite Competitor and is dedicated to helping sports moms strengthen their daughter's mental game and confidence in order to help her perform her best when it matters most.    #girlssports #mentalperformance #sportsparenting #girlathlete #youthsportsJoin the Elite Competitor Athlete Challenge Aug 18-20th!join.elitecompetitor.com/challenge

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If your daughter wants to play at the next level, this is the video she needs to see. 🎯 Grab the tools she needs → trainhergame.com/mom Most athletes spend years training their bodies for college scouts. But the coaches doing the recruiting are quietly screening for something else entirely. After 14 years as a head volleyball coach, I watched talented athletes get removed from recruiting lists - not because of skill gaps, but because of what happened between the plays. 👋🏼 I'm Coach Bre, a ...

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