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EPISODE · Jul 17, 2025 · 28 MIN

The REAL Talk About Kids' Activities: Dance, Hockey & More

from The Art of Plenty · host The Art of Plenty

How do you make the right decisions about your kids' sports and activities? Do you ever wonder when to let them quit, or when to push them to stick it out? As I'm doing my annual family activity evaluation, I'm sharing my honest struggles with things like the dance world's makeup and costume excesses. I also dive into the crazy "more, more, more" pressure in youth sports these days, especially hockey, and how we navigate it when all their friends are doing everything. I'll give you my top strategies for deciding what's right for YOUR unique kid and your whole family, ensuring you're fostering their growth and letting go of your dreams for them when their own may change.Connect with me:Follow me on Instagram Or on TikTokGet on the list: Course launches, bootcamps, webinars, live events, new episodes and free surprises!In this episode:01:29 When to Prioritize Extracurriculars05:20 My Struggles with Dance07:27 The Importance of Parent Judgment & Kids' Freedom11:30 My Appreciation for Dance 14:24 The "More, More, More" Pressure in Youth Sports15:34 The Dilemma of Specialization vs. Multi-Sport17:40 How I Make Decisions for My Family18:04 Strategy 1: Be Aware of My Own Judgment18:35 Strategy 2: Be Aware of Outside Judgments & Talk to Kids20:42 Strategy 3: Consider the Individual Child23:18 Strategy 4: Letting Go of Your Dreams for Them24:22 Strategy 5: Consider the Whole FamilyRelevant Resources:If you found this content helpful, please share with a friend, contact me, leave a review, contact me on my website or on social media

How do you make the right decisions about your kids' sports and activities? Do you ever wonder when to let them quit, or when to push them to stick it out? As I'm doing my annual family activity evaluation, I'm sharing my honest struggles with things like the dance world's makeup and costume excesses. I also dive into the crazy "more, more, more" pressure in youth sports these days, especially hockey, and how we navigate it when all their friends are doing everything. I'll give you my top strategies for deciding what's right for YOUR unique kid and your whole family, ensuring you're fostering their growth and letting go of your dreams for them when their own may change.Connect with me:Follow me on Instagram Or on TikTokGet on the list: Course launches, bootcamps, webinars, live events, new episodes and free surprises!In this episode:01:29 When to Prioritize Extracurriculars05:20 My Struggles with Dance07:27 The Importance of Parent Judgment & Kids' Freedom11:30 My Appreciation for Dance 14:24 The "More, More, More" Pressure in Youth Sports15:34 The Dilemma of Specialization vs. Multi-Sport17:40 How I Make Decisions for My Family18:04 Strategy 1: Be Aware of My Own Judgment18:35 Strategy 2: Be Aware of Outside Judgments & Talk to Kids20:42 Strategy 3: Consider the Individual Child23:18 Strategy 4: Letting Go of Your Dreams for Them24:22 Strategy 5: Consider the Whole FamilyRelevant Resources:If you found this content helpful, please share with a friend, contact me, leave a review, contact me on my website or on social media

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