The Red Flags We Ignore in Dating (With Esther Purnell)

Dating can be exciting, confusing, and sometimes full of warning signs we don’t recognize until it’s too late. In this episode, Kagga Jayson sits down with Esther Purnell for an honest and eye-opening conversation about the red flags people often ignore when entering relationships.Together, they unpack the subtle behaviors that can signal deeper issues—things like love bombing, emotional unavailability, controlling tendencies, and the difference between healthy boundaries and manipulation. The conversation explores why people often overlook early warning signs when they’re attracted to someone and how emotional attachment can make it difficult to walk away from situations that clearly aren’t healthy.Throughout the episode, Esther shares insights on how communication, trust, and emotional awareness shape modern dating experiences. Relationship experts often emphasize the importance of recognizing patterns in behavior and understanding how unresolved personal issues can show up in relationships. For example, discussions in relationship-focused podcasts frequently highlight how boundaries, trust, and control dynamics can reveal deeper compatibility issues in dating situations. Jayson and Esther also dive into topics many people struggle with but rarely talk about openly:Why people ignore obvious red flags when they really like someoneThe difference between insecurity and genuine concern in relationshipsHow social media and modern dating culture affect expectationsWhen to give someone a second chance—and when it’s time to walk awayHow past relationships shape the partners we chooseThe episode blends personal experiences, candid opinions, and practical advice for anyone navigating dating today. Whether you’re currently in a relationship, getting back into the dating world, or reflecting on past experiences, this conversation offers a relatable look at the emotional dynamics behind attraction and compatibility.If you’ve ever found yourself saying “I saw the signs but ignored them,” this episode might change the way you approach dating forever.———————————————————————Follow for More!Podcast Updates Instagram: https://instagram.com/udpbyjaysonk/Jayson’s Instagram: https://instagram.com/kaggajayson/Upside Down Podcast on Twitter/X: https://x.com/udpbyjaysonk?s=21Jayson on Twitter/X: https://x.com/kaggajaysonI've started posting on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kaggajayson?_r=1&_t=ZS-93HOvaTQpxn———————————————————————Host: Kagga Jayson (also known as Jayson K)Guest: Esther Purnell————————————————————Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices