The Root of Financial Focus in Dating + Value Beyond the Bag

From the $200 date debates to the question of should you go 50/50 on the bills, there’s no shortage of commentary centering finances and dating. Is the need to feel financially set before committing to a relationship a good or bad thing? Does this effect our self-worth, leaving us to feel of lesser value if we come upon financial troubles? How is casual dating effected, are we able to enjoy someone’s company without the pressure of presenting a 401K? It goes without saying that being financially stable is a must for any adult, it also goes without saying that in today’s climate finances can be unpredictable. So what happens as the focus of value in partnerships shifts from an emotional to a quantifiable value? Are we better off or more disconnected because of these big bag standards? Let’s get into it.