EPISODE · Aug 22, 2026 · 18 MIN
The Schools Are Going Back And I'm Having Flashbacks
from Anxiously Ever After · host Jennifer Ephgrave
Back to School Anxiety - The Sensory Nightmare ReturnsDescription: Schools are going back in a couple of weeks. And I'm having flashbacks. The dread. The anxiety. The uniform made of angry bees. The fluorescent lights that hum at a frequency only I can hear. This is what back-to-school feels like for kids whose brains weren't designed for it—and what parents can do about it.Key Topics:The chaos of the school environment (sensory war crime edition)The numbers (persistent absence at 18.1%)What back-to-school anxiety actually looks likeHow parents can help (without losing their minds)What I wish someone had said to meIf your child is struggling with anxiety, school avoidance, or other mental health challenges, CAMHS (Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services) is the NHS service that can help.What is CAMHS?CAMHS stands for Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services. It's an NHS service that offers support and treatment to children and young people up to 18 years old who are experiencing challenges with their mental health and wellbeing. They also support parents, carers, and families .How to get a referral:To get help from your local CAMHS, your child will usually need to be referred by a professional. Self-referrals are also accepted in some areas .The following professionals can make a referral for you:Your GPSchool SENCO or teacherHealth visitor or community paediatricianSocial workerSimply ask them: "Could you help us get a CAMHS referral?" What happens next:CAMHS receives the referral and reviews it (triage)If accepted, they'll contact you for an initial assessmentThe assessment explores your child's behaviour, mood, relationships, and impact on daily life Helpful resources before your appointment:📋 YoungMinds Parents' Guide to CAMHS: https://www.youngminds.org.uk/parent/parents-a-z-mental-health-guide/parents-guide-to-camhs/A comprehensive guide for parents on what to expect, how to prepare, and how to work with CAMHS 👤 YoungMinds Young Person's Guide to CAMHS: https://www.youngminds.org.uk/young-person/your-guide-to-support/guide-to-camhs/A guide written for young people to help them understand what CAMHS is and what to expect Tips for supporting your child before the appointment :Share information about what's happening—briefly explain why the appointment is happening and what to expectReassure them—listen to any worries and focus on listening rather than trying to 'fix' it straightawayMinimise stress on the day—plan ahead, leave plenty of time, and agree in advance whether they want you in the appointment with themWhat to do while waiting:If you're on a waiting list, you can use self-care strategies and access online support. Contact your GP or CAMHS team if your child's condition worsens while waiting .If you need urgent help:Call NHS 111 and select the mental health option. Available 24/7—you'll speak to a mental health professional who will listen and help you find the right support .☕ Buy Me a Coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/jen1409m💎 Patreon: patreon.com/AnxiouslyEverAfterIf you're new here, please subscribe. It helps more than you know.This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. I am not a mental health professional. If you're struggling with your mental health or your child's mental health, please reach out to a qualified healthcare provider.UK Crisis Support:NHS 111 (select mental health option)Samaritans: 116 123 (free, 24/7)YoungMinds Crisis Messenger: Text YM to 85258 (free, 24/7)
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