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EPISODE · Apr 12, 2026 · 39 MIN

The Secret Inside the Family: Understanding Tanisha’s Substance Use

from Soberly Speaking · host Julia Rangiheuea

Join our Patreon: ⁠⁠⁠https://patreon.com/SoberlySpeaking⁠⁠ Trigger warning: This episode discusses child SA within a family, domestic violence and su*cide. Listener discretion is advised. Support resources are listed below.As a teenager, when Tanisha tried to speak her truth, she was not believed by those closest to her. That silence left her carrying a deep emotional weight alone. Over time, she entered a difficult and unsafe relationship, and in that period she began using cash advances to obtain substances, believing she would not have a long future. When the money ran out, she turned to alcohol, believing it was a more socially accepted way to cope. What started as occasional drinking gradually became more frequent. It wasn’t until she began therapy that she was able to reframe her past, reflect on her experiences, and slowly move toward sobriety.Follow Tanisha on Instagram: @t_soberclubCreator & Host: Julia RangiheueaReady to share your story? [email protected]:The stories and experiences shared in this episode are personal accounts told in good faith. While we aim to present these narratives accurately, the views expressed are those of the individuals involved and have not been independently verified. Soberly Speaking and its host, Julia Rangiheuea, are not responsible for the accuracy or validity of the information shared. Listener discretion is advised.If this episode has brought up anything for you, support is available:1800RESPECT (24/7): 1800 737 732Lifeline (24/7): 13 11 14Bravehearts: 1800 272 831National Alcohol & Other Drug Hotline (24/7): 1800 250 015If you’re outside Australia, please reach out to your local support services.In the spirit of reconciliation, Soberly Speaking acknowledges the Traditional Custodians of Country throughout Australia and their connections to land, sea and community. We pay our respect to Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples today.

Join our Patreon: ⁠⁠⁠https://patreon.com/SoberlySpeaking⁠⁠ Trigger warning: This episode discusses child SA within a family, domestic violence and su*cide. Listener discretion is advised. Support resources are listed below.As a teenager, when Tanisha tried to speak her truth, she was not believed by those closest to her. That silence left her carrying a deep emotional weight alone. Over time, she entered a difficult and unsafe relationship, and in that period she began using cash advances to obtain substances, believing she would not have a long future. When the money ran out, she turned to alcohol, believing it was a more socially accepted way to cope. What started as occasional drinking gradually became more frequent. It wasn’t until she began therapy that she was able to reframe her past, reflect on her experiences, and slowly move toward sobriety.Follow Tanisha on Instagram: @t_soberclubCreator & Host: Julia RangiheueaReady to share your story? [email protected]:The stories and experiences shared in this episode are personal accounts told in good faith. While we aim to present these narratives accurately, the views expressed are those of the individuals involved and have not been independently verified. Soberly Speaking and its host, Julia Rangiheuea, are not responsible for the accuracy or validity of the information shared. Listener discretion is advised.If this episode has brought up anything for you, support is available:1800RESPECT (24/7): 1800 737 732Lifeline (24/7): 13 11 14Bravehearts: 1800 272 831National Alcohol & Other Drug Hotline (24/7): 1800 250 015If you’re outside Australia, please reach out to your local support services.In the spirit of reconciliation, Soberly Speaking acknowledges the Traditional Custodians of Country throughout Australia and their connections to land, sea and community. We pay our respect to Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples today.

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