The seminal sex book that changed Dee Salmin's life

Dee Salmin has spent years as host of The Hook Up on triple j talking to people about their love lives and interviewing experts to understand the dynamics of modern dating.She's distilled all of that wisdom into a modern dating guide, It's Not Love Actually: How To Find The Life And Love You Deserve. But she says there was one stand-out writer on sexuality and feminism that totally blew her mind.