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EPISODE · Feb 23, 2026 · 21 MIN

The Sex Lessons Trope — Done Right | A Little Buzzed by Alys Murray

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This post contains affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you.Quick Note Before You Press Play: The audio quality on this episode isn’t my usual standard (thank you for your grace 😅). If you want the best experience, I highly recommend watching the video version — it includes captions and the sound is much clearer. You can find it on Spotify and YouTube.Thank you for being here and for always supporting the show. 💛--------------------------What happens when a virgin sex toy engineer asks her coworker for sex lessons… and ends up getting way more than she bargained for?This week, I’m chatting with author Alys Murray about her steamy new romance A Little Buzzed, why sex scenes need emotional arcs, and how the sex toy industry has completely transformed over the last decade. We talk mutual pleasure, power dynamics, writing for Hallmark vs. high-heat romance, and why “horny jail” only lasts so long.If you love workplace romance, sex-positive stories, mafia rom-coms, and books that balance spice with heart — this episode is for you.📚 Books MentionedA Little Buzzed by Alys Murray — Contemporary Romance | Workplace | Sex Lessons Trope | High HeatThe Seduction of Mr. Alfred Saintsbury by Lydia Lloyd — Regency Historical Romance | Power Dynamics | High SpiceDom Com by Adriana Anders — Workplace Romance | High Heat | Sex-Positive RomanceThe ReDo List by Denise Williams — Contemporary Romance | Second Chance at Life | Emotional GrowthLove Most Fatal by Kath Richards — Mafia Rom-Com | Female Mob Boss | Cinnamon Roll Hero⏱️ Timestamps[00:00] Welcome + why Alys and I have similar book taste[02:00] The premise of A Little Buzzed[03:30] Mutual “sex lessons” + flipping the virgin trope[04:30] How the sex toy industry has evolved[07:00] Virginity, pleasure, and agency in 2026[08:00] Why sex scenes need emotional arcs (Heated Rivalry reference 👀)[10:00] Screenwriting for Hallmark vs. writing spicy romance[14:00] Lydia Lloyd’s filthy Regency recommendation[16:00] Workplace spice: Dom Com[17:00] The Redo List by Denise Williams[17:30] Mafia rom-com obsession: Love Most FatalJoin the ConversationSubscribe to our Substack for exclusive recommendations. (wtrnblog.substack.com)Follow & Subscribe: What to Read Next Blog | YouTube: What to Read NextSubscribe & leave a review!

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