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EPISODE · Aug 7, 2025 · 44 MIN

The Sex Talk We Never Got: Consent, Safety & Self-Worth with Kandy Christensen

from Things My Mother Forgot to Mention · host Jan Bergstrom and Patti Meyer

**Content warning: This episode mentions rape**On this episode, we’re joined by our guest, Kandy Christensen, who shares her powerful personal journey—from being raised to comply, to reclaiming her voice and agency after years of silence, confusion, and trauma.This conversation covers deeply personal and sometimes difficult ground, but we believe in naming it, talking about it, and healing out loud.What consent really means—and why it goes beyond “no means no”How silence, fear, and shame shaped our early sexual experiencesThe impact of growing up in a culture that rewards compliance over agencyWhat it’s like to navigate sex and dating in a larger bodyThe long-term effects of not feeling safe enough to say noWhy personal power and sexual pleasure go hand-in-handAnd how it’s never too late to reclaim your right to chooseWe hope this episode makes you feel seen, supported, and never alone.As always, resources are available at thingsmymotherforgottomention.com.About Kandy:Kandy Christensen is a crafter who loves textiles, every personality test she has taken says she is a knowledge seeker, she is an empath, she sometimes can be seen carrying a vintage camera and she lives with a free range bunny named Sweetie. She works in non-profit administration by day and by night she is a Life Coach.Links:Kandy’s WebsiteInstagram FacebookFind resources mentioned in this episode here.Learn more about this podcast here.Submit your 90-second lesson/experience here.Apply to be a guest here.Stay updated on new episodes here.*Information shared on this podcast is not medical advice. If you have a concern about your physical or mental health, please seek support from a proessional.

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**Content warning: This episode mentions rape** On this episode, we’re joined by our guest, Kandy Christensen, who shares her powerful personal journey—from being raised to comply, to reclaiming her voice and agency after years of silence, confusion, and trauma. This conversation covers deeply personal and sometimes difficult ground, but we believe in naming it, talking about it, and healing out loud. What consent really means—and why it goes beyond “no means no”How silence, fear, and shame s...

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