The Show Up Framework: Empowering Parents of Preteens

Send us Fan MailAre you bracing yourself for the preteen years? In this eye-opening conversation, I sit down with Marcus Higgs, a presence coach for parents of preteens, who reveals why this stage isn't something to fear, but an opportunity to forge an unbreakable bond with your child.Through captivating insights and practical wisdom, Marcus illuminates:The "ICE" Model: Understanding Your Preteen's Inner WorldWhy your child's shifting identity is a natural and necessary part of growthHow to navigate the tricky waters of collaborative mistrustPractical strategies to support your preteen's developing emotional management skillsThe "Show Up" Framework: A Blueprint for Authentic ConnectionStart with a strong character identity: Harnessing your child's unique strengthsHold space for collaboration: Fostering critical thinking and problem-solving skillsOpen up communication: Passing on values without being preachyWonder and explore this world together: The power of shared projects and goalsUnveiling Potential Together: The Heart of the FrameworkWhy letting go of the reins is crucial for your child's developmentHow to create an environment of mutual growth and flourishingMarcus doesn't just offer theory – he provides actionable steps you can implement today:Communicate unconditional acceptance (even when it's challenging)Prioritize your own well-being to show up as your best selfEmbrace the present moment, knowing these years are fleetingWhether you're already navigating the preteen years or they're on the horizon, this conversation will equip you with the tools to not just survive, but thrive during this transformative stage. Are you ready to reframe your perspective and build a relationship that will last a lifetime?Tune in and discover how to become the trustworthy, present parent your preteen needs.Companion Downloadable Content for Episodehttps://www.thefallibleman.com/podcastextras -- Connect with Marcus --Website - https://marcushiggs.comFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/marcus.higgsLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/marcushiggsYour Next EpisodeNavigating the Teen Years: A Parent/Teen Guide to Communication and Connectionhttps://www.thefalliblemanpodcast.com/Rahz_SlaughterJoin our Bi-Weekly Mailing List and Receive our "Foundations of Change" Ebook - https://mailchi.mp/thefallibleman/2y3lp1to1e-- Time Stamps --00:00:00 Understanding and Navigating the Preteen Years00:02:33 Introducing Marcus Higgs, the Presence Coach for Parents00:15:35 FOR PEOPLE WHO WANT TO SKIP THE GET TO KNOW YOU SEGMENT - START HERE00:18:17 The Essence of Being a Presence Coach for Parents00:23:22 Understanding the Common Struggles of Preteens00:27:57 Transitioning to a Coaching Parenting Style00:28:52 Creating a Family Culture and Setting Expectations00:30:30 Communication and Problem-Solving Approach00:34:19 Dealing with Emotions in Preteens00:36:22 Recognizing Signs of Emotional Distress in Preteens00:43:41 Impact of Technology on Mental Health00:46:52 Trust Economy in Parenting00:47:29 The Importance of Character Strengths in Positive Psychology01:01:52 Building a Strong Relationship with PreteensSupport the show