The Social Probation Period | Pillow Fort Sessions EP 42

Send us Fan MailJulius explores how different communities operate similarly despite their diverse interests and activities. He dives into his experiences navigating kink, board games, non-monogamy, geek culture, and improv communities, highlighting the universal patterns that emerge in each social group.• All communities have an approximately 90-day "probationary period" before truly accepting new members• People need to see you consistently show up before they open their inner circle • Bad actors and creepy people don't last long in any community regardless of focus• Finding your specific tribe within the larger community takes time but is worth the effort• Communities we choose often provide acceptance we didn't find in communities we were born into• Being quiet and not engaging socially makes integration much harder• Persistence is key - sometimes it takes years to find your specific people within a communityIf you want to join a new community, just go! Keep showing up, develop social capital by talking to people, and don't get discouraged if acceptance takes time. Email your questions to [email protected]/6/26 1/6/26Support the showCome let us know what you think! - IG -https://www.instagram.com/kampfirekinksters/Yahoo - [email protected] check out our merch!https://www.etsy.com/shop/SafeWordSocietyhttps://tee.pub/lic/F1PtyQ_K8kEhttp://www.redbubble.com/people/safewordsociety