The Strength It Takes to Ask for Forgiveness (The Inner Life)

On The Inner Life with Deacon Patrick Conley, caller Tom from Milwaukee shared a powerful lesson about meekness, forgiveness, and what can happen when we make room for God’s grace. For years, tension had been building between Tom’s family and their neighbors. His neighbor's children frequently came over, conflicts arose, and resentment grew. Tom and his wife prayed about the situation, but the anger remained. Then his wife suggested something unexpected: They should go next door and ask forgiveness for whatever part they had played in the conflict. Tom was reluctant. From his perspective, the problems were entirely the neighbors’ fault. Still, he went. “I can’t explain it outside of God’s mercy, grace,” Tom recalled. “That second, everything changed.” The neighbors hugged, they invited Tom and his wife to dinner, and Tom said his anger toward the woman disappeared. Patrick pointed out that this is precisely why meekness should never be confused with weakness. It takes an immense amount of strength, he said, to approach someone against whom you have a long list of grievances and simply say, “Forgive me.” Sometimes, winning the argument isn’t what heals a relationship. Humility, forgiveness, and God’s grace can accomplish what resentment never will. The best way to catch Best of the Week is on our #1 Free Catholic App. It’s free, and always will be! To get and share the Relevant Radio app, check it out here.