The Struggle Podcast EP2 - Rabbi Shloime Ehrlich

Shloime Ehrlich is a rabbi, educator, and community leader in the Orthodox Jewish community, recognized for supporting struggling youth. He founded Bnos NY, a program offering a nurturing environment for teenage girls facing challenges, and contributes to Kesher Nafshi, delivering talks on resilience and support for individuals and families. He also specializes in couples counseling and marriage, with a focus on blended families, helping them navigate their unique dynamics.00:00 – Intro00:44 – Rabbi Erlich’s Journey 07:35 – Dating vs shidduch System 12:38 – Roles in the marriage20:45 –Are divorces disposable?22:16 – Seeking advice from the right people 24:33 – Knowing who the kids really wanna marry  27:54 – Bias Din and Toyanim33:50 – Family court disputes37:10 - When do you know the marriage will not work?41:18 - Not letting the ex have custody45:25 - Getting out of toxic relationships49:12 - living with the decision after a divorce51:49 - Do tolerance levels change for second marriage?58:23 - Children who take advantage of divorce01:01:56 - Learning to trust again01:06:11 - Successful second marriages 01:08:24 - The right way to get divorced01:10:38 - Self blame and healing 01:14:52 - Gaining children’s trust in blended families 01:18:05 - Why are kids misbehaving and dropping out of schools?01:28:11 - Who is you’re role model?01:30:28 - Final thoughts 01:34:27 - OutroFollow us on Socials for More Content:  Subscribe on YouTube -https://www.youtube.com/@Thestruggle.podcastInstagram- https://www.instagram.com/thestruggle.podcast?igsh=MTZ2cnp3dTJpYXl0cQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrSpotify -https://open.spotify.com/show/44tgKK9oZF2z01wwYZQBRL?si=HKGgYRG2Rm-5G8jK75UteQApple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-struggle/id1796423076To Reach Rabbi Shloime Ehrlich Website - https://rabbiehrlich.org YouTube -https://www.youtube.com/user/ShloimeEhrlichInstagram -https://www.instagram.com/shloimeehrlich/