The Stupid Mistakes That Destroy Marriages (And How to Avoid Them) with Jim Ramos

Contrary to what many say, most marriages aren't destroyed by parental wounds, unresolved anger, or a sinful past.  Jim Ramos, founder of Men in the Arena, talks candidly with Arlene about his new book Guardrails: 10 Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage. They dive into practical wisdom for building a marriage that lasts, drawn from Jim's 34+ years of real-life experience. Jim has seen enough marriages crumble to know one thing: most of them didn't fail because of deep psychological wounds or unresolved trauma — they failed because of small, unwise decisions that compounded over time. Tune in for practical wisdom and ways to avoid these costly mistakes for marriages.  2:08 Why Jim & Shannon created guardrails after 34 years 4:51 Navigating opposite-sex coworkers and professional boundaries 8:00 How to receive compliments without opening emotional doors 10:50 Guardrail #9: Always send gifts from us, never just from you 14:00 The story loop problem (King Solomon & the Queen of Sheba) 21:14 Guardrail #3: Staying emotionally connected  24:07 Social media dangers: Jim's personal rules (150k followers, zero apps on his phone)   Get a copy of Jim's book, Guardrails: 10 Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage and find out more about his ministry at meninthearena.org. More Resources from Arlene Pellicane: SUBSCRIBE to Arlene's newsletter "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse. Check out Arlene's BOOKS including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier. Follow Arlene on Instagram and/or Facebook Go to Arlene's YouTube Channel How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media? Watch the free video, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email [email protected] Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the Gabb Wireless phone for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE) Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.