The Switch Up (It's REAL!)
from Little Talks with Big Nikki Hosted by Nicole
This podcast gets REAL everyone! The overall message I want to send to anyone listening is as follows: People in your life are going to change up on you, so be ready for it. It will feel like it is out of left field, so you should allow yourself to be sad/hurt/upset/mad. A majority of the time, people who change up on you has nothing to do with you or anything you did, but everything to do with themselves and the hurts they are experiencing. You don't owe it to anyone to explain your strained relationship and you do NOT need to beg anyone to stay in your life. Don't be naive or lash out or demean character, but be forgiving and cautious going forward, keeping those who switched up at a safe distance. And most importantly, don't let them/their toxic/negative energy move on with you to the next thing you're doing. They made their decision, but don't allow what they say to or about you stop you from fulfilling your passions and purpose. I can almost guarantee that for every person who switches up on you, there are at least 2 other people in your life who will value and appreciate you, so you don't need to waste your time being sad you lost someone who did neither.
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