The three identities in every relationship (E6)

In this podcast, Stephen explains that there are, in fact, three identities in every relationship. There is you, your partner, and the relationship itself. As Stephen puts it "We have to appreciate that we and our partner, and all the other aspects of our being together, for example, home, work, family, combine to make up the third, arguably most important identity which is that of the relationship. And relationships change, just like we ourselves do." So we have to protect our own identity in any relationship, but we also have to protect the relationship itself. Stephen goes on to explain how to go about this; the key elements being mutuality, trust, negotiation, openness and calmness. ================ If you like this episode then you might also like : "An Alternative Relationship Manifesto" is here to guide you on a journey of self-discovery and relationship exploration. Written in an informal narrative style, this book uses conversational language, slang, and figures of speech to make the topic of alternative relationships accessible and engaging." https://a.co/d/4Brkl2m ================