The Trans Issues and Kink Episode

Let’s get elbow deep in complex topics like kink, neurodiversity, trauma healing and trans gender issues. Writer Cosima bee Concordia aka “Bimbo Theory” joins me here and you can find her on Patreon too. 1:00 her new IG is @bimbo.theory 3:00 what is kink? 7:00 ADHD and sluggish cognitive tempo 9:00 lists and timers can be helpful for ADHD 13:00 moral panic around trans people 15:00 informed consent models 18:00 on “pegging the patriarchy” 22:00 Greek men had rules for how they were allowed to have anal sex 25:00 on pegging 30:00 I want leather education! 33:00 BDSM book recommendation - “Leathersex” 36:00 blood play and risk 40:00 submissives and service-topping 45:00 nicknames and pet names 49:00 r*pe-role play 53:00 eroticized taboos 56:00 examples of many types of kink play 59:00 resources for cis people dating newly-transitioned folks FIND YOUR GUEST at https://linktr.ee/bimbotheory FIND YOUR HOST: stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows Sponsored by our friends at NetherlandsWax.com Condoms and Lube can be found on Condomania.com - code THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! Need a waterproof blanket? Sponsored by Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Looking for quality vibes? Get 15% off at LoveCrave.com Thanks for rating and reviewing this podcast :)