The Truth about Infertility - and What it does to a Relationship — with Abbe Feder

Abbe Federal joins in Heels with Keni Silva to share her journey through infertility, identity loss, and the impact fertility struggles have on relationships. In this deeply honest episode of In Heels with Keni Silva, Abbe Feder shares her personal journey through infertility and how it led her to create InCircle Fertility—a platform designed to support individuals and couples through one of life’s most complex and emotional experiences. Blending lived experience with her background in behavioral science and coaching, she reveals how the process of trying to conceive can shift relationships from connection to pressure—exposing hidden cracks and forcing difficult, often unspoken decisions. She speaks candidly about identity loss, the moment women become patients before partners, and the emotional weight of navigating hope, grief, and uncertainty. Now a mother to miracle twins, she is helping redefine the conversation around fertility—bridging the gap between clinical care and emotional support, and reminding people they don’t have to navigate this journey alone. This episode is a powerful exploration of love, resilience, and what it truly means to rebuild yourself when life doesn’t go according to plan. ⭐ Loved This Episode?If this conversation moved you, challenged you, or gave you a new perspective:• Tap Follow or Subscribe so you never miss an episode• Leave a 5-star review — it helps this show reach more women who need these conversations• Share this episode with someone who needs permission to keep standing• Follow @KeniSilva_ and @InHeelswithKeniSilva on Instagram• Watch video clips and full episodes on @InHeelswithKeniSilva, Youtube, McCordlistTV, Roku • Learn more about Divorce As An Opportunity and Keni’s work at Kenisilva.com