The Truth About Mistakes, Accountability, and Allah | Shaykh Rasoul & Shahrez Hayder | Ep. 24

This episode is proudly presented by Ketkoot Iraqi Chargrilled Chicken! The go-to spot for bold Iraqi grilled chicken, whole chicken feasts, and delicious community meals in Mississauga and beyond. https://linktr.ee/ketkoot Apply for Shahrez's Inner Circle Mentorship Program: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/12Ruwll04qJ-y5y7YfWpnCToaDSo39jWRWVjzXgIsUBM/viewform?edit_requested=true How do we navigate life knowing we’ll never be perfect, yet still strive to improve? In this episode of The Path We Choose (TPWC), host Umer Farooque sits down with Shaykh Rasoul to explore the Islamic perspective of faith, intention, and personal growth — the idea of “not sinless, but sin less.” Shaykh Rasoul breaks down how true surrender to Allah, understanding His attributes, and practicing Tawakkul can transform your life. From navigating daily challenges to making decisions guided by Shariah, Istikhara, and personal consultation, this conversation highlights the balance between action and trust in Allah. He also addresses sensitive topics like interpreting Hadith, accountability in relationships, and building harmony in family life while staying true to Islamic principles. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: • Why perfection isn’t the goal — strive to sin less instead • How intention shapes every action and decision • Understanding Allah’s 99 Names to strengthen your faith • The 5-step process to decision-making in Islam • How to practice Tawakkul while taking action • Interpreting Hadith correctly and avoiding misconceptions • Building compassion, fairness, and balance in personal and family life Timestamps: Chapters 00:00:00 Introduction: The Purpose is Not to Be Sinless, But to Sin Less 00:01:27 The Right to Be Happy: Celebrating Eid While Brothers and Sisters Suffer 00:05:18 Why Does Evil Exist? Understanding Allah's Attributes and Free Will 00:07:55 Compassion vs Despair: Intention is Everything 00:10:40 The Spiritual Bank: How Good Deeds Compound Like Condensation 00:12:20 The Five Steps of Decision Making in Islam 00:14:37 Qadar and Free Will: Two Realms Operating Simultaneously 00:17:17 The 99 Names of Allah: Knowing Who You Surrender To 00:21:40 Anxiety and Certainty: The Nervous System vs Faith 00:32:02 The Hadith Controversy: Why Rejecting Sunnah Destroys Islam 00:37:53 Hadith and Patriarchy: Context, Accountability, and Misuse 00:46:26 Midpoint Break: The Mission of Authentic Storytelling 00:47:14 Marriage and Leadership: The Pilot and Co-Pilot Model 00:49:04 Who to Marry: Taking the One With Deen 01:00:30 Hadith Kutsi and the Power of 'I Am How My Servant Thinks of Me' 01:18:23 The Colonization of Islamic Scholarship 01:23:26 We Don't Need Millionaires, We Need Billionaires 01:24:52 The Teacher and the Student: Surrender to Learn 01:25:47 Closing: Making the Deen Accessible and Lighthearted Whether you’re seeking spiritual growth, guidance in daily life, or clarity in decision-making, this episode provides actionable insights to align your actions with faith and deepen your understanding of Islam. Follow Shaykh Rasoul: Website: https://shaykhrasoul.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shaykhrasoul/?hl=en Follow Shahrez: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@shahrez.muslim Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shahrez.muslim/ Follow Umer Farooque & The Path We Choose (TPWC): Website: https://thepathwechoose.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/umerfarooquee/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mumerfarooque/ TPWC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepathwechoosee/ Subscribe to The Path We Choose for deep, thoughtful conversations on faith, personal growth, and practical guidance for living in alignment with Allah’s wisdom.