The Truth About Modern Masculinity

What does it really mean to be a man today?In this episode of the SEF Backstage Pass Podcast, Ali Ilyas, Clinical Psychologist at Monarch Health Centers, explores modern masculinity, grief, emotional resilience, relationships, and the importance of building healthier conversations around men's mental health.Drawing from both his personal experiences and years of clinical practice, Ali shares why vulnerability is not weakness, how childhood experiences shape adulthood, and why meaningful human connection is essential for long-term wellbeing.Whether you're navigating relationships, leadership, or personal growth, this conversation offers valuable insights into emotional health and what it means to thrive in today's world.Chapters00:00 Introduction00:50 Meet Ali Ilyas01:10 How losing his father shaped his life and career03:02 What people get wrong about modern masculinity05:30 Why are young men drawn to Andrew Tate?06:15 The mental health crisis facing men08:00 Why men struggle to open up emotionally10:34 Anger, emotions, and mental health at work12:18 What are men really carrying?13:25 How to support the men in your life15:00 One simple question that builds better conversations16:10 The everyday pressures men face18:05 Why a man's worth is more than what he provides20:20 How Ali protects his own mental health22:00 Practical techniques for reducing stress and anxiety24:00 The most rewarding part of working with men25:05 Social media's impact on men and mental health26:00 Final thoughtsSubscribe for more conversations with entrepreneurs, innovators, and changemakers on the SEF Backstage Pass Podcast.This episode was produced in partnership with Poddster.Follow SEF:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharjahefTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sharjahefLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/sharjah-entrepreneurship-festivalWebsite: https://sharjahef.com