EPISODE · Apr 23, 2025 · 18 MIN
The Truth About Sober Dating, Sex, and Love with Alida Flannery
from Sisters In Sobriety · host Sonia Kahlon and Kathleen Killen
What really happens when you start dating sober? Sonia sits down with Alida Flannery, a Certified Addiction Recovery Coach, founder of Epiphany Recovery, and co-founder of the women’s sober collective SOULBRIETY. Alida opens up about navigating love and relationships without alcohol—and let’s just say, her first sober date included dogs, a hike, and thankfully, no cocktails. Alida shares what it was like re-entering the dating scene after sobriety, how she negotiated her way down from a proposed 100-date challenge. Together, Sonia and Alida talk about what it means to stay true to yourself in the dating world, and why sometimes a second drink at lunch is more telling than it seems. This episode has raw honesty that only two sober women can bring to the table. If you’ve ever wondered how to answer “Why don’t you drink?” on a date, what it means when someone orders six martinis, or how to spot love that feels like home instead of chaos, this one’s for you. Enjoyed the episode? Show us some love—like, comment, and subscribe to catch more from our Truth About Sober Dating, Sex & Relationships series. And if you’ve got your own wild sober date story or green flag moment, drop it in the comments. We want to hear all the juicy details. Links • Sisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and community • Sisters In Sobriety Email • Sisters In Sobriety Instagram • Kathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcast • Kathleen’s Instagram Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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<p>What really happens when you start dating sober? Sonia sits down with Alida Flannery, a Certified Addiction Recovery Coach, founder of <a href='https://www.epiphanyrecovery.com/'>Epiphany Recovery</a>, and co-founder of the women’s sober collective <a href='https://www.soulbriety.ca/'>SOULBRIETY. </a>Alida opens up about navigating love and relationships without alcohol—and let’s just say, her first sober date included dogs, a hike, and thankfully, no cocktails.</p><p>Alida shares what it was like re-entering the dating scene after sobriety, how she negotiated her way down from a proposed 100-date challenge.</p><p>Together, Sonia and Alida talk about what it means to stay true to yourself in the dating world, and why sometimes a second drink at lunch is more telling than it seems. This episode has raw honesty that only two sober women can bring to the table.</p><p>If you’ve ever wondered how to answer “Why don’t you drink?” on a date, what it means when someone orders six martinis, or how to spot love that feels like home instead of chaos, this one’s for you.</p><p>Enjoyed the episode? Show us some love—like, comment, and subscribe to catch more from our <em>Truth About Sober Dating, Sex & Relationships</em> series. And if you’ve got your own wild sober date story or green flag moment, drop it in the comments. We want to hear all the juicy details.</p><p>Links</p><p>• <a href='https://sistersinsobriety.substack.com/'>Sisters In Sobriety Substack</a> - find more tips, tricks, resources, and community</p><p>• <a href='mailto:[email protected]'>Sisters In Sobriety Email</a></p><p>• <a href='https://www.instagram.com/sistersinsobrietypod/'>Sisters In Sobriety Instagram</a></p><p>• <a href='https://www.kathleenkillen.com/'>Kathleen’s Website</a> <em>Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcast</em></p><p>• <a href='https://www.instagram.com/coupleswithkathleen/'>Kathleen’s Instagram</a></p><br><br>Support this podcast at — <a href='https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donations'>https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donations</a><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>
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