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The truth about timeouts and what you can do instead!

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11/21/2023

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Timeouts are such a common practice when parents are trying to get their kids to listen; I would even venture to guess it's a recommendation from professionals and something regularly talked about as a helpful behavior strategy on the internet.   But, did you know that sending your child off to a timeout is creating more disconnection. When there is disconnection, your child's "thinking" brain is inaccessible. This creates MORE of the unwanted behavior.   Instead, get CONNECTED! Connection = better behavior.   Tune in today as I share your child's perspective on timeouts and 2 strategies you can utilize instead that creates connection.   Chaos to Calm mini course: https://dawn-term-318.myflodesk.com   Stay Listening episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected-helping-parents-navigate-challenging/id1609008872?i=1000554474011   Are you really okay with crying episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chaos-to-connected-helping-parents-navigate-challenging/id1609008872?i=1000565110255   Want to schedule an info call and see if 1:1 coaching is right for you?? https://calendly.com/kjzeiher/behavior-call   Connect with me here: https://www.instagram.com/kailijozeiher/ or if you'd prefer email at [email protected].   XO Kaili  

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Chaos to Connected - Helping Parents Navigate Challenging Behavior with Connection; motherhood, toddler tantrum, behavior, conscious parenting, gentle parenting, pediatric occupational therapy

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