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EPISODE · Mar 29, 2024 · 24 MIN

The Ultimate People Pleasing Cure

from The Vital Goddess · host Dianne Shepherd

People pleasing is a hot topic isn't it?We've been hearing a lot about ways that we can get in our own way by getting stuck in patterns of sacrificing ourselves in service to others.We can find ourselves habitually attempting to please others at our own expense in order to keep the peace; not rock the boat, to be liked or approved of.The cost of these patterns add up.Chronic people pleasing tanks us. It cuts us off from our true desires, pleasure, creative expression, and joy. It makes us go numb so of course it's going to make us resentful. People pleasing literally shuts down the flow our authentic life force; our orgasm.  Over time this can have a devastating effect on our physical and mental wellbeing. And the wellbeing of any relationship. Not a good recipe for thriving.People pleasing patterns are not confined to romantic relationships either. They can show up in any relationship. You may find this dynamic happening with friends, bosses, colleagues clients, parents and even our children.We've all been there. And it makes sense why we've developed these patterns.It's absolutely not your fault.And you can heal.Would it surprise you if I told you that the cure for people pleasing is pleasure?Yes, it's true! I've seen this time and time again with clients (and myself).It doesn't happen overnight. It's a journey. A journey into the Sacred Feminine Mysteries.Where your pleasure & desire reign supreme.A journey worth taking.We won't ever heal and release people pleasing habits (and create thriving relationships) by making ourselves wrong and calling ourselves out.We heal when we step into the radiance of who we truly are.Want more?Let's dive in!Want to dive deeper?Join the Waitlist for The Vital Goddess Mastermind:https://shakticore.com/vital-goddess-mastermindTake the Reclaiming Aphrodite masterclass:https://shakticore.com/reclaiming-aphroditeTake the Falling in Love With the Dark Goddess masterclass:https://shakticore.com/dark-goddessLearn more about The Deep Femme Series:https://shakticore.com/deep-femme-seriesEmail Dianne: [email protected]

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People pleasing is a hot topic isn't it? We've been hearing a lot about ways that we can get in our own way by getting stuck in patterns of sacrificing ourselves in service to others. We can find ourselves habitually attempting to please others at our own expense in order to keep the peace; not rock the boat, to be liked or approved of. The cost of these patterns add up. Chronic people pleasing tanks us. It cuts us off from our true desires, pleasure, creative expression, and joy. It make...

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