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EPISODE · Feb 10, 2026 · 41 MIN

The Village Is a State of Mind: Welcome Back with Dre & Em

from Circle This · host Good Mess Media

We're back. And instead of rushing into "new year, new you" energy, Dre and Em open the season by honoring winter, integration, and the deep exhale that comes after a big creative year.       With 55 episodes behind them (and a podcast ranked in the top 2% globally), they circle around what's sustaining them now: chosen family, learning to receive support, and expanding the places love is allowed to live.       This episode is a love letter to the village—real village energy, not fantasy commune aesthetics. Dre and Em reflect on a recent desert celebration for their beloved mentor and friend Leigh Kilton Smith—a living example of community in action. Flash mobs, art-making, campfire circles, and collective participation become a case study in what happens when everyone gets to belong, be witnessed, and be held.       They also dive into what love looks like in everyday life: the "small acts" that make someone feel deeply loved, the subtle ways people block care and celebration, and why letting others love you can be one of the most radical forms of self-love.       Chosen family isn't built through networking. It's built through orientation. A state of mind. A way of being. And a choice.        Wand Drops:
"If you are willing to love yourself through your friends, it can heal the world."
"Think like a circle: every part matters and we take care of the whole."     --       Stay connected with the Circle This team: @andreabendewald @circlethispodcast @emkratter @goodmessmedia @talkwithtrace 
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