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EPISODE · Mar 20, 2026 · 30 MIN

The Voice of Shame: How To Stop the Inner Abuser (Ep. 012)

from A Door of Hope · host A Door of Hope Podcast

Shame has a voice, and for many people who have experienced trauma, it can become loud and relentless. In this episode of A Door of Hope, Kay and Kerry talk about how toxic shame can take root after painful or traumatizing experiences, shaping the way we see ourselves and the stories we begin to believe about our own worth. These internal messages often grow out of moments where something deeply painful happened, leading us to quietly accept the lie that what happened to us defined who we are. Thankfully, we can learn to recognize the voice of shame, challenge the lies it tells us, and slowly reclaim a healthier, more truthful understanding of who we are in Christ.   Chapters: 01:28 Identifying Shame 06:08 Why We Feel Shame 11:57 The Types of Shame 19:34 The Voice of Shame 22:16 How To Overcome Shame   About the Hosts: Kay Tolman and Kerry Hansher are both survivors of Satanic Ritual Abuse (SRA). Beginning in childhood, the ritualistic trauma they endured led to a long and difficult journey toward healing, marked by struggles with anxiety, depression, suicidal ideation, and dissociative identity disorder (DID). Through many years of walking in healing and restoration with the Lord, Kay and Kerry have found freedom—and now dedicate their lives to helping other survivors who have been ignored, shamed, or ridiculed. Using the freedom God has given them, they offer hope, understanding, and practical support to those navigating this deeply complex and often misunderstood trauma. To find additional resources on recovering from SRA or to learn how to minister to individuals healing from trauma, visit our website: http://rgmconnect.com or contact us at [email protected].    Resources: Satanic Ritual Abuse Exposed (Kay’s Book): https://a.co/d/6QUrx5y Helping Victims of Sexual Abuse: https://a.co/d/0f6OficC    Follow Us: Facebook: http://facebook.com/RevelationGatewayMinistries Instagram: http://instagram.com/RevelationGatewayMinistries    Tags: #ToxicShame #HealingFromTrauma #MentalHealth #TraumaRecovery #InnerHealing #SelfWorth #EmotionalHealing #PTSDRecovery #SelfCompassion #HealingJourney #ShameSpeaks

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