The Walk Up the Hill When Safety Isn't Enough

In this episode, Dr. Marshack dives into a raw and often unnamed aspect of Survivor's Guilt: the difference between providing physical safety and creating a felt sense of safety for those we love.   Through the story of her dog, Kokomo, and her friend Janine, Dr. Marshack reflects on her own years "under fire," spending over half a million dollars in legal fees and 12 years in court to protect her children. She addresses the heartbreaking reality that while she was their fierce protector, her nervous system was too overtaxed to be their "soft" mother.    This is a must-listen for any parent in a NeuroDivergent family system who has felt the sting of being called "different" because they had to be a warrior. Learn how to offer yourself compassion for what you couldn't give while in survival mode and how to begin rebuilding the felt sense of safety today.   ————————————————————    If you are looking for more resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, start with Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview.   The Discussion Continues: Join the confidential Podcast After Party for this episode! Check the schedule at Thinkific and the Meetup group.   Future of Healing: Dr. Kathy is developing two innovative video games: Radiant Empathy: A Journey of Heartbreak and Healing and The University of NeuroDiversity: Radiant Empathy Campus.  ➡️ Find more resources at https://asd-ntrelationships.com/