The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 38 — Dating and the Grasp of Technology

Send us Fan MailEpisode 38 — Dating and the Grasp of Technology____________________________________________________You’ve probably seen the stats on online dating. In 2019, a Stanford University survey suggested that 39% of new couples, across the US, met online, surpassing any other form of introduction.And you’ve probably experienced, first-hand, that most popular dating sites are—when it comes to number of matches—incredibly rigged against men.Maybe it’s old-fashioned, but Zan and Jordan far prefer the romantic idea of meeting someone in embodied life. Far away from the nearest screen and, if possible, she’ll write down her phone number in lipstick, on the torn-out flap of a pack of cigarettes.Sex and intimacy are contact sports. Those who practice _in the flesh_ build a different sort of resilience. Everyone stuck in the online bubble aches to burst out of it. Women get matches every day but haven’t met one decent man in months. *Zan is constantly saying: people will soon crave the old-time art of starting conversations with anyone, anywhere.*Yet people are growing afraid of each other. More scary than approaching someone, is being approached by someone yourself. I’m safe over here in my laptop… what does this weirdo want?!So how do you put your best foot forward, in a society that grows ever-more fragile, and afraid?Luckily, the principles that underlie attraction and human yearning remain, and always will remain, the same.Watch today’s discussion as Zan & Jordan explore more.Afterwards, take a few moments with a notepad, and write down:1) What’s one take-away you got from the conversation?2) What can you apply right away?____________________________________________________Come join us! Sign up today and enjoy all the perks of the Amorati Membership, including live calls with Zan and his team. Go here: https://www.Amorati.net/____________________________________Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides into town, completely solves your problem, then rides off into the sunset. Contact Zan Perrion personally to inquire about his incredibly effective one-on-one Laser Coaching. Find him here: https://arsamorata.com/gunslinger/____________________________________Get a gifted copy of The Alabaster Girl, personally signed by Zan Perrion. Go to https://alabastergirl.com____________________________________Get instant access to our 4 part mini-course with Zan Perrion 🎁 :https://amorati.me/free-gift/____________________________________Join our newsletter here & get all our latest: https://arsamorata.com____________________________________________________THE AMORATI is a close-knit fraternity of men from all over the world who have devoted their lives to the philosophy of The Ars Amorata.The Amorati are lovers of women. The Amorati are lovers of life. The Amorati are treasure hunters and raconteurs. The Amorati are on a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.JOIN US in the AMORATI membership - Go to https://www.Amorati.net/. Talk to Anthony, our membership coordinator, here: https://cal.com/arsamorata. ____________________________________ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to all of you.Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beauty is neither. It is neither inherent as a property of the object (the objective view) nor is it in the eye of the beholder (the subjective view). Beauty is a third thiSupport the show