The Zan and Jordan Show — Episode 48 — Be a Traveller, Not a Tourist (Why Travel Should Change You)

Send us Fan MailYou hear the call to adventure—how to answer it through travel without blowing up your relationships or career.WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:- The difference between travelling to consume vs. to reveal something hidden within you—and how _real_ travel changes who you are- North, East, West and South as archetypes—what each offers a man, and what a balanced traveller looks like- Why a strong call to adventure won’t leave you until something in you has transformed (and how suffering comes from suppressing it)- How *clearly identifying* what you’re seeking can dramatically reduce the time, money, and energy your journey requiresTIMESTAMPS:00:00 Highlights02:00 Thoughts on the first Amorati Guild call and _culture creation_10:20 How to leave as one man and return as another16:50 Escape vs. adventure 22:35 You’re probably in one of these 3 stages37:10 The archetypal North, East, West and South39:55 Brazil as a case study 48:30 From Zan’s client: “I have a burning desire for adventure… but I also have a great girl in my life”What desire is burning inside of you? Let us know in the comments. ABOUT THIS VIDEO:*In this week’s podcast, we begin to guide you through different models of initiation.*Some highlights:*1.* How different life stages require us to complete certain tasks of maturation,*2.* How the place in the world that you’re drawn to represents the missing facet within your soul,*3.* How you probably don’t need the size and scale of adventure you imagine. When you understand what your psyche’s calling for, you can often shorten and direct the adventure, and keep the girl… _if you truly want to._There’s no relationship status that will rescue you from the mythical, psychospiritual urge for initiation.But you don’t have to blow up your relationship so you can wander. In fact, knowing exactly what you’re seeking doesn’t just raise the chances of your trip being a success… it can evoke from everyone around you the empathy (and challenge) that you need.Though most people, these days, travel completely in the dark. Impulse, without reflection.Enjoy the episode.And, if you’d like to go deeper into this territory, _The Art of Initiatory Travel_ will be the topic of our next Weekend Intensive.January 10th + 11th, online.Available to members of the Amorati Guild.~ Jordan#zanperrion #fearofintimacy #dating #mendating #flirting #datingadviceformen #flirttips #relationship #jealousy ____________________________________________________Read The Full Amorati Guild Invitation → https://arsamorata.com/guild/____________________________________Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides into town, completely solves your problem, then rides off into the sunset. Contact Zan Perrion personally to inquire about his incredibly effective one-on-one Laser Coaching. Find him here: https://arsamorata.com/gunslinger/____________________________________Get a gifted copy of The Alabaster Girl, personally signed by Zan Perrion. Go to https://alabastergirl.com____________________________________Get instant access to our 4 part mini-course with Zan Perrion 🎁 :https://amorati.me/free-gift/____________________________________Join our newsletter here & get all our latest: https://arsamorata.com/#joincommunity____________________________________________________ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.Ars AmorSupport the show