The Zan and Jordan Show — Restoring Beauty — Longing, Yearning, Certainty, Conviction | Debunking Masculine & Feminine Approaches to Love

Send us Fan MailWho Longs More: Women or Men?The words “longing” and “yearning” have become mainstays in our recent conversation with men. Strange - these are terms you find in Rumi’s mystic poetry, or in femininity goddess work, not the male dating arena. But here we have it: men owning their longing for relationship, and all the poetic wisdom that the longing itself contains.At the same time, more men than ever are voicing their discomfort with terms like “certainty” and “conviction”. These are classic ‘masculine qualities’. Sure, it’s dicey to claim certainty and conviction over anything in today’s world… but will any great love affair take off if both parties are restricted to yearning, and neither embodies a bit of conviction about their feelings?Today, Zan and Jordan explore this well-worn language used in today’s ‘conscious’ or ‘spiritual intimacy’ circles. Zan debunks a number of definitions of these terms. I, Jordan, don’t necessarily agree. What do you think?🔗 Ready to jump into the Amorati world? http://www.arsamorata.com/guild____________________________________________________#zanperrion #fearofintimacy #dating #mendating #flirting #datingadviceformen #flirttips #relationship #jealousy ____________________________________________________Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides into town, completely solves your problem, then rides off into the sunset. Contact Zan Perrion personally to inquire about his incredibly effective one-on-one Laser Coaching. Find him here: https://arsamorata.com/gunslinger/____________________________________Get instant access to our 4 part mini-course with Zan Perrion 🎁 :https://amorati.me/free-gift/____________________________________Join our newsletter here & get all our latest: https://arsamorata.com/#joincommunity____________________________________________________ARS AMORATA is a celebration of the art of seduction, the rebirth of romance, and a lifelong quest for beauty and adventure.Ars Amorata is a philosophy of beauty. It is a way of life. It is not a religion. It is a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to all of you.Philosophers throughout the ages have argued whether beauty is objective or subjective, but in my view, beauty is neither. It is neither inherent as a property of the object (the objective view) nor is it in the eye of the beholder (the subjective view). Beauty is a third thing altogether.Beauty is prime. It stands alone. It is a thing apart, in Kant's words: a Thing-In-Itself (Ding an sich). Beauty emanates from what Aristotle called the Unmoved Mover, what Plotinus called The One, what scientists call the Big Bang, and what John in the New Testament called the Word or Logos.Ars Amorata is an attempt to lift Beauty to its rightful place as the primary guiding principle in our hearts and in the world.____________________________________Visit the Ars Amorata WEBSITE: http://www.ArsAmorata.comVisit the Zan Perrion WEBSITE: http://www.ZanPerrion.comJoin our Ars Amorata group on FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1Bid....____________________________________________________Copyright © 2025 Alabaster Communications Inc. All rights reserved. Ars Amorata ®, The Amorati ®, Casa Amorata ®, and the Amorati logo are all registered trademarks of Ars Amorata International SRL.Support the show