There Is Something You Can Do: How One Mum Changed Her Son’s Future” with Tara Parry

Ever felt the sting of being "held back" after school for another incident report? This episode is a lighthouse for any parent navigating the complexities of neurodiversity. We are joined by Tara Parry, a courageous mum who share the raw, honest story of her son, Herbie. Tara takes us through their intensive three-year journey, detailing the "hard graft" of an 18-month reflex integration program and the specific exercises that transformed Herbie’s motor skills in weeks. We explore the clinical side of their success—from using neurofeedback to help Herbie "remember" how to sleep, to discovering surprising food sensitivities through Organic Acid Testing. Tara’s story proves that while the path isn't easy, the destination—a child who "just blends in" and thrives at expected school levels—is worth every single black 'X' on the calendar. Key Takeaways Motor Markers of Brain Gaps: Difficulties with pincer grips or an inability to cross the midline are often neurological markers that can be corrected with specific, daily brain-changing exercises. The "Bottom-Up" Sequence: Successful healing starts in the brain stem by integrating primitive reflexes before moving to higher-level therapies like neurofeedback or photobiomodulation. Tenacity in Saturation: True neurological change requires persistent "hard graft"—Tara committed to 18 months of twice-daily exercises, treating them as non-negotiable as brushing teeth. Refining Nutrition: Beyond just going gluten and dairy-free, specific testing can uncover "healthy food" sensitivities, such as salicylates in brightly coloured fruits, that may drive excitatory behaviour. Regressions are Progress: Intense behavioural regressions during reflex work, particularly with the Spinal Galant or ATNR, are signs of the nervous system rewiring, not failure. Timestamps 00:00 – Spotting the Early Signs: Recognising a "mother's instinct" even when milestones seem to be met. 06:44 – The First Breakthrough: How five minutes of daily "crossing the midline" exercises changed Herbie's motor skills in weeks. 11:47 – The Hard Graft of Reflexes: Navigating an 18-month integration program and the reality of school regressions. 20:15 – Unlocking Sleep with Neurofeedback: Moving from sleep deprivation to 10-hour nights by influencing brain waves. 25:10 – The Organic Acid Test: Why "rainbow diets" and green smoothies aren't the best choice for every child. 31:10 – Photobiomodulation & Brain Maps: Using red-light helmets and QEEG data to calm emotional responses. 38:00 – From Struggle to Blending In: The dream parents' evening and Herbie's new academic trajectory. 43:40 – A Message of Hope: The power of tenacity and building the brain stem from the bottom up. SOCIAL/IMPORTANT LINKS ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@braindevelopmentuk⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/braindevelopmentuk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/larakelly/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https:/www.braindevelopment.co.uk⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HOST BIO Lara Barnes a successful woman in tech found herself managing behavioural, learning and speech difficulties with her son, she learn functional neurology and how to change the brain to correct his symptoms and build his left brain. The Building the Brain Podcast is for parents needing to understand how to help their children and show them what can be done to change little lives to allow them to shine and be their best version. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠