They Said No One Would Marry Him. He Proved Them All Wrong." | Amo Raju OBE

What does it feel like to grow up disabled, be told no one would marry you, and carry 17 years of silent pain — all while building one of the most respected charities in the Midlands? Amo Raju OBE sits down with Naroop Jhooti for one of the most raw, unfiltered conversations The Dad Project has ever hosted. Amo shares the stories he's never told publicly, the aunties who wrote him off at age 8, the 4-hour cry that changed his life at 17, eloping with the woman he loved against caste and family, a hospital chaplain's words that became his life's mantra, and 30 years of silent depression as a CEO at the top of his game. This is a conversation about disability, identity, love, fatherhood, mental health and what it means to be a man who refuses to stay in the box others build for him. Chapters 00:00:00 The Hospital Chaplain Who Changed Everything 00:02:34 The Turning Point: Four Hours of Crying at Age 17 00:06:13 Growing Up Disabled: The Conversations Had About Him Without Him 00:09:41 Three Little Girls and the Bullying That Changed Everything 00:34:33 The Love Story: Eloping Against Caste and Disability 00:41:20 Twenty-Five Years Without Acceptance: The In-Laws' Rejection 00:56:39 Thirty Years of Hidden Depression: The Therapy Sessions 01:17:31 The Second Awakening: Owning Success and Removing the Mask 01:07:51 Buckingham Palace and Making Noise: The OBE and What Comes Next Topics covered: Growing up disabled in a first-generation immigrant family Being bullied at school and carrying it in silence The emotional breakdown at 17 that became a turning point Eloping - marrying against caste with a disabled man no family wanted 25 years of in-law rejection and what it taught him about love A mini-stroke, a hospital chaplain, and a mantra that changed everything 30 years of secret depression as a CEO Receiving an OBE and what Mrs Raju said on the drive home Disability in India, donating 650+ wheelchairs, and fighting global inequality What it means to become "King of Disabled People" About The Dad Project The Dad Project is a podcast and community for real, unfiltered conversations on men's mental health, fatherhood, and the struggles men carry in silence. Follow Andrew Pritchard Instagram: @amorajuofficial LinkedIn: dr-amo-raju-obe-dl-1253a634/ Facebook: @amo.raju.39 TedTalk: He Walks Like a Man Follow The Dad Project Instagram: @thedadprojecthq (https://www.instagram.com/thedadprojecthq) TikTok: @thedadprojecthq (https://www.tiktok.com/@thedadprojecthq) YouTube: @thedadprojecthq (https://www.youtube.com/@thedadprojecthq) X (Twitter): @thedadprojecthq LinkedIn: The Dad Project (https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-dad-project) #MensMentalHealth #DisabilityAwareness #TheDadProject #AmoRaju #MensWellbeing