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EPISODE · Jun 13, 2026 · 20 MIN

They're Not Disrupting Your Relationship. You're Letting Them

from The Grammar of Us · host Megan Hulme

You can leave a marriage. You can meet someone extraordinary. You can want, genuinely, to start again. But if you haven't set boundaries with your ex, your children, and the friends still operating on the old social geography — it won't matter. The pattern will repeat. The interference will continue. And the person beside you will absorb all of it, quietly, until they can't anymore. This episode is about why boundaries after divorce aren't optional. They're the only thing standing between your new relationship and the wreckage of the old one.Support the showThanks to our sponsor Pleasure & Intimacy: https://pleasureintimacy.com/ Shop intimate pleasure toys and lubrications for solo or partnered pleasure.  Pleasure & Intimacy are stockists of the world's premium pleasure toy collections.  Discreet shipping across the USA and Canada. Follow: https://www.instagram.com/thegrammarofusCheck out my website at: https://www.thegrammarofus.com/Thanks for joining me and supporting me on this journey!  MH xx

You can leave a marriage. You can meet someone extraordinary. You can want, genuinely, to start again. But if you haven't set boundaries with your ex, your children, and the friends still operating on the old social geography — it won't matter. The pattern will repeat. The interference will continue. And the person beside you will absorb all of it, quietly, until they can't anymore. This episode is about why boundaries after divorce aren't optional. They're the only thing standing between you...

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