this episode title is going to be under the relationship title mother daughter relationship

Today is my middle daughter's birthday and I wanted to call and wish her a happy birthday but felt like I needed to let her know that I do disapprove of her anger towards me and so instead of sending her and happy birthday text I sent her a happy hate me because I'm beautiful day text not sure exactly why I did that but I felt maybe it would touch something in a hard to let her know that I know how she feels about me and I hope that we could some kind of way repair our relationship. I have sent her a text letting her know that I love her not really understanding her feelings was hoping that she could explain to me why she feels the way she does but there's been so many things going on in my life I just wanted her to let her know that I realize today was her birthday even though I did not wish her and happy birthday because I'm not happy with the way she's treating me as her mother who loves her so much