This Isn’t a Self-Help Podcast

Send us Fan MailThis is the first episode, and I want to be clear from the start.This isn’t self-help.It’s not advice.And it’s definitely not about fixing yourself so you can be more tolerable in relationships.I’m introducing why this podcast exists, why I wrote It’s You, Oh Fuck, It’s ME, and why I’m done with the performance of “doing the work” while nothing actually changes.I explain the structure going forward:Solo episodes where I speak honestly about addiction, self-avoidance, unconsciousness and my own patterns of repeated behavioursConversations with other therapists who aren’t interested in teaching, just in being vulnerable and honestReal sessions with readers and clients, sitting in the middle of what’s actually happening for them — not the polished versionThis podcast is about the moments we usually rush past.The discomfort we rename as growth.And the ways we keep choosing the same outcomes while blaming different people.No tips.No transformation tricks.No neat ending.Just a place to stop lying to yourself.WEBSITEINSTAGRAM BOOK SALES: SHOPIFYGROUPS/COURSES: PATREON