This Week Has Ben Sex, Scams, and Secret Santa (ft. Joy)

⚠️ Warning: this episode is X rated and NSFWThis week on It’s Ben A Week, Ben is joined by his friend — Joy — for the dirtiest, wildest, and most X-rated episode in the history of the show. And before they even get to the sex talk, Ben has a Thanksgiving meltdown to unload.The episode opens with Ben’s Thanksgiving Eve nightmare: A scammer stole $1,000 from him — and did it so convincingly that even Joy admitted she would’ve fallen for it. Ben walks Joy step-by-step through the scam, including:How the scammer spoofed Order numberHow they knew his name, order number, voicemail, tracking, and totalHow they walked him through fake Zelle “refund codes”Why Wells Fargo is still investigatingAnd how the scammer called him again to try to steal his home addressThen the episode shifts into the Naughty Secret Santa the two are preparing for — including:Joy’s late sexual awakeningWhy she never talked about sex growing upHow shame, religion, family, and insecurity shaped her early adulthoodPorn, OnlyFans, and the difference between fantasy and real intimacyWhy communication and consent matter more than anythingThe danger of unsafe hookups and saying “no”Ben’s near-traumatic HIV scare in collegeThe reality of dating apps, scams, and safety for womenBen and Joy talk openly, honestly, and hilariously about everything most people are scared to admit — proving that talking about sex doesn’t have to be taboo, shameful, or secret.It’s the most unfiltered, eyebrow-lifting, educationally chaotic episode yet.🎧 Subscribe to It’s Ben a Week New episodes every week filled with unfiltered stories, wild guests, and brutally honest laughs. Hosted by photographer and professional barrel racer Ben McDonnell.📍 Listen & Subscribe: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube | Amazon | Wherever you get your podcasts🔗 Connect with Ben: Instagram: @itsbenaweek TikTok: @itsbenaweek Website: itsbenaweek.com💬 Want to be on the show? Submit your story or pitch at itsbenaweek.com