This Will Change How You Think About Love & Timing ft. Elvira Arul | #88

“It was one of those stories I wouldn’t trade for a million bucks in any currency.”Elvira’s first love lasted more than 30 years.They were never fully together, but never fully apart.Somehow it was always the wrong timing.But this episode is about more than heartbreak.It’s about how love changes you.How grief sharpens your priorities.And how being single doesn’t mean being incomplete.🧠 In this episode, you'll learn:  • Why she’ll never settle for someone just to fill a void • What holding space for a friend actually looks like (no fixing, no rushing) • The sandbox metaphor that’ll stay with you forever • Dating in the loneliness pandemic (and the one app she actually liked) • Knowing the difference between “good time” friends and “low time” friends • Why curating your circle is emotional self-protection, not ego • And how to ask the questions people are too scared to ask themselvesWe talk about almost-loves, ageing, anger, silence, and the quiet strength of choosing yourself—even when it’s lonely.Whether you’re in a situationship, healing from heartbreak, or just tired of shallow connections—this one’s going to shift something in you.Follow Elvira: https://www.instagram.com/elvirasoul---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Hosted by Maggy Wang, this podcast is where real talk meets real life — messy, mundane, and everything in between. From everyday struggles to smashing through stigmas, we know you're here for the unfiltered conversations. There will be laughter, there will be awkward silence and maybe some tears.One thing's for sure: You won't get enough. So kick off your shoes (or heels), grab a seat and #letsgetheadoverheelsLet us know if you enjoyed this episode and found it helpful! We wanna hear what YOU want to do & talk about next! NEW HEAD OVER HEELS PODCAST EPISODES BI-WEEKLY ON THURSDAYS AT 6PMFollow us on:Instagram:    https://www.instagram.com/theheadoverheelspod  Maggy:    https://www.instagram.com/themaggywang