Three Relationships, One Decade — What Changed When I Was Guided, Not Fixed

In this episode, Adam Turner shares his journey through relationships, exploring the patterns and red flags he encountered along the way. He reflects on a decade of avoiding dating, the lessons learned from his early relationships, and the role of therapy in understanding himself better. Through candid storytelling, he emphasizes the importance of awareness and self-discovery in personal growth and emotional health.TakeawaysThis isn't a story about failed relationships.Experience alone doesn't equal growth. Awareness does.What patterns have shown up more than once in your relationships?I wasn't incapable of connecting, just immature.I wanted to help or take their pain away.Therapy isn't about taking advice from someone who's been there.This relationship wasn't shaky due to a breakdown in communication.I needed someone to help me see myself clearly.Sometimes the hardest step is simply showing up.Take the lead when it comes to depression. Episode Disclaimer This episode of Dancing With Depression includes conversations about mental health that may be sensitive for some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. The content shared reflects personal experiences and perspectives and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. For non-emergency support and resources, contact the NAMI HelpLine at 1-800-950-NAMI (6264).