Three times burned by The Church

This is about as real as I can get... I think.. what should I go deeper on or talk about? Here I talk about the three times I got burned by the church. What this means is that people in the church, whether leaders or congregants, acted in an abusive, destructive or at least a hurtful manner. The three are: My dad's old theology, a messy situation with a crush, and the last one was parent's as I led the youth ministry (I still lead the ministry).The last one was only made aware to me months later in therapy with a christian therapist. It made me contemplate on all the pastors that are tired of being bullied for doing the right thing... My heart goes out to every pastor that is hurt by their church but we can't stop and slow down! and we should have grace with these pastors!