TikTok Is Teaching Us More About Ourselves Than We Realise
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EPISODE · Nov 21, 2025 · 9 MIN

TikTok Is Teaching Us More About Ourselves Than We Realise

from Women Who Don't Apologise · host Patricia Haywood

In this episode, I share the uncomfortable truths I’ve learned from actually being on TikTok, not as a viewer, but as a creator. From people cosplaying wealth, to viewers chasing illusions they’ll never reach, to the way the algorithm manipulates our emotions in the first three seconds… this is what’s really shaping us.We talk about the value of your attention, why views are the new currency, why most people don’t actually want change, and how emotional triggers are becoming the default learning mode online. If you’ve ever wondered why today’s internet feels chaotic, addictive, and performative, this conversation will make things click.This is a wake-up call for women who want to consume consciously, grow intentionally, and stop giving their power and their viewership, away for free.

In this episode, I share the uncomfortable truths I’ve learned from actually being on TikTok, not as a viewer, but as a creator. From people cosplaying wealth, to viewers chasing illusions they’ll never reach, to the way the algorithm manipulates our emotions in the first three seconds… this is what’s really shaping us.We talk about the value of your attention, why views are the new currency, why most people don’t actually want change, and how emotional triggers are becoming the default learning mode online. If you’ve ever wondered why today’s internet feels chaotic, addictive, and performative, this conversation will make things click.This is a wake-up call for women who want to consume consciously, grow intentionally, and stop giving their power and their viewership, away for free.

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