EPISODE · Mar 9, 2026 · 21 MIN
Title: What Does It Mean To Be Your Authentic Self: 5 False Identities that Women Feel Stuck In
from Divine Return · host Kristy Riese & Shannon Perez
What is a false identity, and how do you know if you’re truly being your authentic self?Many of us move through life wearing invisible armor—patterns we developed to stay safe, loved, or accepted. Over time, these identities can quietly shape who we believe we have to be: the overachiever, the people pleaser, the good girl, the rescuer, the controller, or the voice of imposter syndrome that whispers we’re not enough.In this episode, Shannon Perez and Kristy Riese explore the five protective identities many women unknowingly carry. These roles may have helped you survive childhood expectations, emotional wounds, or the pressure to perform—but they can also keep you disconnected from your true, authentic self.Together, Shannon and Kristy unpack:• What a false identity really is and how it forms• The psychology behind the overachiever and perfectionist pattern• Good girl syndrome and the hidden cost of constant approval-seeking• How people pleasing disconnects you from your real voice• Why the rescuer identity needs to be needed• The subtle ways imposter syndrome and control patterns keep you stuckThrough personal stories, compassionate insight, and practical reframes, they reveal how these identities develop—and how awareness is the first step toward healing.You’ll learn how to recognize when these protective patterns show up in your life and how to begin releasing them with compassion rather than shame. Because the goal isn’t to judge the armor—it’s to thank it for protecting you and gently retire it with honor. If you’ve ever wondered:• Ever wonder why you think that you have to prove your worth?• Have you ever wondered why you are a people pleaser?• Do you struggle to let go of control and wonder why it’s so hard?• Do you desire to live more authentically?This conversation will help you see yourself with new clarity and compassion.Your authentic self isn’t something you have to become.It’s who you already are—waiting beneath the armor.ShannonFeel free to edit anything that you feel fit! Let me know what you think!ShannonDo you think that we answer those main basic bullet points? I wonder if we do this the other way where we have our them, SEO search, throw description into Chap and see what it says and then based on that do our version of the recording? Join our Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1Dwj3XEs6D/Connect with Shannon Perez: [email protected] with Kristy Riese: [email protected]
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