To Dad or Not to Dad: A Deep Dive

In this episode of the Why, Dad? podcast, hosts Paul Wandrey and Andrew Stolpestad explore the profound question of whether to have children. They delve into the societal and personal implications of parenthood, discussing the joys and challenges of raising a family. The conversation touches on the importance of understanding one's motivations and the impact of children on personal growth and relationships. Through personal anecdotes and philosophical reflections, they aim to provide listeners with insights into the decision-making process surrounding parenthood.In this episode, we cover:Why “should you have kids?” might be the wrong questionNot feeling equipped and why that’s more normal than you thinkFear of screwing kids up and what actually matters insteadFreedom, travel, and how priorities shift across life seasonsWhy love alone isn’t enough without intentionPurpose, responsibility, and choosing fatherhood consciouslyWho this episode is for:Men on the fence about becoming dadsAspiring fathers thinking about the futureCurrent dads reflecting on their whyAnyone wrestling with purpose, commitment, and responsibilityMentioned in this episode:The idea that reflection matters more than certaintyThe role of intention over perfectionHow community, uncles, mentors, and parents all shape kids