To Rihanna or to Ari Lennox? That is the question | @obabalu (Ep. 116)

On this episode Oba and I are just chillin and chopping it up about life. We hadn’t seen or talked to each other in a while. We ended up discussing. Oba’s first journey into having a salaried position and what that transition has been like for him. I talk about my mismanagement of money while I was in corporate sales, making good money but spending more than I was making and racking up credit card debt. Most importantly, Oba is at that point in his life where he wants settle down and I do my best to help him stop chasing that Rihanna’s and the SZA’s and find himself an Ari Lennox! Oba solicits from the listeners, specifically from married women, questions that a single brotha that’s looking for wifey should ask the women that he’s dating. What questions can he ask that will weed out those that are not looking for a long-term relationship and to find a proper wifey candidate. Listen and enjoy! #ad | Shop with Mister Ok's Essentials for 100% all-natural candles, soap, and body butter. Receive 10% off your next order when you use the promo code: SOX www.misteroksessentials.com