“To the Man With the Soft Eyes I’ve Yet to Meet” with Chiffon Lark

In this episode, we have the honor of speaking with the incredibly thoughtful and wise Chiffon Lark, who tells us a story of romantic longing rooted in personal purpose. Together, we explore whether the desire for a romantic relationship can coexist with an intentional, independent life. We then dive into today’s dating discourse, why many women are rejecting traditional relationship models, and what we can learn about alternative relationship models through the teachings of Chiffon’s Indigenous culture. About Chiffon Lark✨ Chiffon Lark is a full-time artist and children’s book author based in San Diego, California. She is an Indigenous advocate for environmental sovereignty for Native peoples and wildlife, and is of White Mountain Apache, Mescalero Apache, and Coahuiltecan descent. Her work is rooted in ancestral relationships with land, food systems, and non-human relatives. 💫 Follow Chiffon on Instagram @chiffonlark 🖼️ Check out Chiffon’s art including her new children’s book, “I Am” Links from the episode ✨ “I Am” by Chiffon Lark “My Story Asking if Boyfriends Were Embarrassing Went Viral. Here’s What That Says About the State of Heterosexual Dating” by Chante Joseph ”What Does It Really Mean to Decenter Men From Your Life? And can you still date them while you do it?” By Kayla Kibbe “2025 was the year single women chose themselves. Will they continue in 2026?” By Chante Joseph Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices