Top 12 Guidelines for Tough Conversations; Motivations for the Show

The issues we tackle on this show are controversial and if there is one thing we hope to produce in ourselves and those who listen to us is the ability to have tough conversations with others. In this video, we discuss what we consider to be the top 12 guidelines for having tough conversations:  To support our work in strengthening the faith and identityof Jewish followers of Messiah, you can visit https://www.twomessianicjews.com/donate0:00 - Introduction1:45 - Pursuing truth is more important than proving our point  4:39 - Seek to understand before being understood6:01 - “Assume that the person you are listening to knows something you don't." - Dr. Jordan Peterson7:27 - Do not assume anything about your conversation partner’s moral character or intellectual position based on hearsay or stereotypes10:31 - Recognize that everyone has biases. Pointing out their bias does not make them wrong15:08 - Remember that talking is thinking20:00 - Understand that feeling uncomfortable is often a good sign24:40 - Know that you can passionately hold to an opinion while still listening, understanding, and being open to the contrary  25:51 - Understand how easy it is to be wrong40:25 - Know that admitting you are wrong is not a display of weakness, but of courage48:18 - State what you believe as precisely as possible. The only way to be understood is to be understandable50:11 - Communicate what we believe to be true in loveYou can also listen on our YouTube channel Follow us on Social Media:     Facebook Instagram Resources:For further guidelines see the papers written by Dr. David Rudolph https://rabbidavid.net/papers