Transforming Consciousness: Detaching with Love for Personal and Parental Growth

In this episode of the Crown Yourself podcast, host Kimberly Spencer opens up about her personal journey of becoming a mother and the transformative impact it had on her life. She discusses the difference between love and attachment, emphasizing the importance of detaching from the energy that binds us to others. Kimberly shares her own experiences of fear and challenges as a new mother, as well as her journey of healing and growth. She encourages listeners to examine their own attachments and detach with love, creating a space of support and guidance for transformative consciousness.   Enjoy, sovereigns!   Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music, or your favorite podcast listening platform. You can also watch the episode on Youtube. Quotes: "Love is when you can fully detach and love yourself fully as you are, as who you are." ~ Kimberly Spencer   Moments of Note: The Transformation of Becoming a Mother [00:00:00] Kimberly shares her personal experience of becoming a mother and the transformative journey it entails.   Detaching from Attachment [00:05:03] Kimberly discusses the concept of detachment and how it relates to love and attachment in various aspects of life.   The Paradox of Attachment and Detachment [00:12:09] Kimberly explores the paradox of attachment and detachment, highlighting the importance of detaching from outcomes while still maintaining a deep love and connection.   Attachment and the Root of Suffering [00:14:32] Explains the concept of attachment and how it leads to suffering, using the metaphor of a succubus-draining life force.   Detaching from Responsibility for Others [00:16:05] Discusses the idea of not taking responsibility for other people's actions and letting go of attachment to their outcomes.   Detaching as a Parent [00:18:49] Explores the challenges of detaching as a parent and allowing children to find their own path, using the example of the speaker's own child's adventurous nature.   Mentions + Additional Resources: Mentioned at 00:06:20: Netflix special "Being Dad" Ancient Hawaiian Huna Buddhism   Mentioned at 00:10:31: "The Biology of Belief" by Dr. Bruce Lipton Dr. Joe Dispenza   Mentioned at 00:14:32: Drama Triangle concept   Related but not mentioned in the episode:   "The Drama Triangle: Victim, Rescuer, Persecutor" book by Stephen Karpman "The Hero with a Thousand Faces" book by Joseph Campbell "The Power of Now" book by Eckhart Tolle "The Four Agreements" book by Don Miguel Ruiz "The Untethered Soul" book by Michael A. Singer "The Surrender Experiment" book by Michael A. Singer "The Power of Vulnerability" TED Talk by Brené Brown "The Law of Attraction" concept "The Secret" book and documentary by Rhonda Byrne   The Crowned Cliffnotes Version of the Podcast (aka Bullet Points):   Kimberly Spencer's personal experience of becoming a mother and the transformative journey it entails The profound impact of Kimberly's son, Declan, on her life and the role of motherhood The difference between love and attachment as the biggest challenge faced as a parent Exploring the concept of detachment and its relationship to suffering Kimberly's journey of healing and growth as a new mother The concept of attachment as a succubus that drains life force and leads to suffering The drama triangle and the roles of victim, villain, and hero Detaching from responsibility for others' actions and judgments Detaching from fears to support and guide loved ones Encouraging listeners to examine their own attachments and share the episode with others who may be struggling.