Trapped: How Narcissists Use Vehicles to Intimidate and Threaten

If you've ridden in a car with a narcissist, then you've likely experienced them using their driving to intimidate, threaten, or scare you. People with narcissistic traits often use vehicles like a weapon, turning you into more of a hostage instead of a passenger. This week, Dr. Kerry and co-host Lynn break down why road rage and narcissism frequently co-occur and how the car gets used for far more than just driving, i If you've survived narcissistic abuse, want to watch the part we couldn't fit into the main episode? Become a paid Substack subscriber and learn: What to actually do if you're experiencing narcissistic abuse but you can't leave yet Why "how do I make them stop?" is the wrong first question, Why grey rock can backfire behind the wheel And the dangerous assumption nearly every survivor makes about their own safety. Become a paid subscriber here and unlock your access today! Tune in this upcoming Thursday for Viewers' Stories where we'll share your road-rage stories. LYNN STRATHDEE is a UK-based psychodynamic psychotherapist specializing in echoism, narcissistic abuse recovery, and the unconscious patterns that keep survivors stuck in repeating relationship cycles. A former educator turned therapist, Lynn brings both clinical training and lived experience to her private practice, where she works with clients online and in person. Her approach goes beyond surface-level psychoeducation to the deeper identity work that creates lasting change. Website Key Moments 00:00 — Cars as devices for control nobody suspects 05:00 — The car as a metaphor for the self 08:06 — What their car says to the world 11:39 — The mattress on the floor: the car as a mask 14:23 — When something this ordinary makes you doubt yourself 17:49 — The parking-garage asthma attack 21:48 — His reality wins, no matter the danger 26:18 — Gender, cars, and the "little lady" hierarchy 29:12 — What to do if this is happening to you (→ Podcast Extra) Dr. Kerry's Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching app The Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resources First Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course Toxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community support Follow Dr. Kerry! Youtube Instagram TikTok Facebook Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D, a retired psychologist & author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships and deconstructing narcissism. As an Amazon affiliate, commission is earned from qualifying purchases. This podcast/video is for educational purposes only. It does not constitute therapy, counseling, or professional mental health advice. If you are in crisis, please call 911 or your local emergency number. #narcissisticabuse #toxicrelationships #roadrage #narcissists Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.